Remember, we 're raising children, not flowers !

Remember, we 're raising children, not flowers !

David - my next door neighbor - has two children , a 5 -year-old , a 7 -year-old . One day he taught 7 -year-old Kelly how to use gas powered lawn mower ,    ecco shoes sale   when he was teaching him how to turn the mower around in the grass at the end , his wife told him to ask things , David has just turned , took Kelly Lawn mower overturned on the side of the garden - their path , about 2 feet wide, a flower has been razed to the ground !
    David back to discover what happened , he started out of control , David spent a lot of time this so effortlessly tends the garden the envy of neighbors . He began to roar up on his son , when his wife came quickly , his hand on his shoulder , said: " David , please remember - we 're raising children, not flowers ! "
    David 's wife would also reminded me that parents need to understand varies inside .MiuMiu Handbags   Child's self-esteem than he destroyed any material things more important . Glass windows were baseball chop suey was a child accidentally knocked over the lamp and out in the kitchen, dishes have been broken , and the flower has died. We must remember not to break a child 's mind , if they become numb vibrant heart , will add greater losses.
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    A few weeks ago, I bought a sports jacket, and and owner Mark • Max discuss parenting issues. He told me that when he and his wife and 7 -year-old daughter out for dinner , his daughter turned the big glass . This will clean the stains after the parents did not blame her . Daughter looked up at them , said: " You know , I really thank you very much unlike other parents , the parents of most of my friends roared to teach them to be more careful. Thank you for not doing that ! "
    I once had dinner with friends , a similar incident occurred. Their 5 -year-old son knocked over a table and the Milk Cup . When they start blaming him, I intentionally knocked over my cup . When I explained that I will upset the 48 -year-old things , the boy began to smile , but his parents seemed to understand my meaning , no longer angry . How easily we forget that we are still learning ah !
    I recently heard a story about Stephen • Grey . He is an important medical achievements have been made scientists .    cheap mbt shoes A newspaper reporter interviewed him and asked him why he is more creative than the average person what is it him so far apart ?
    He answered , that a child with his mother about his experience . Once he tried to take a bottle of milk from the refrigerator , the results missed the bottle fell to the floor , milk spilled all over the floor - like a sea of milk!
    His mother came to the kitchen and did not shout at him and said: " wow, each time you create such a disorder, the best to you or to clean it up and ensure proper order now Do you want to do that? we can a sponge, a towel or a mop. Which do you prefer ? "He chose the sponge and together they cleaned up the floor of the milk
    His mother had said: "You know , we have how to effectively big milk bottle with two tiny hands were moving on to take it . " The little boy learned that if he grasped the bottle with both hands the top near the lip , he You can hold it . What a wonderful lesson !
    The renowned scientist , said that moment he knew he need not fear mistakes . In addition , he learned that mistakes just to learn something new opportunities for scientific experiments as well. Even if the experiment fails, we will learn something of value .
    If everyone 's parents have told his mother the same, that is not it?
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    A few years ago , Paul • Lowe has been on the radio said that a relationship can be applied in the adult stories .
    There was a young woman driving home when the collision damaged the fender . This is only a few days a new car factory , she explained to her husband how to do ?
    Another vehicle 's driver , said they must note each other's driver's license and license plate number . When the young woman from a big brown envelope out file with a piece of paper fell out. Above her husband's notes : "If something happens ... ... Gucci Womens ShoesRemember, my dear, I love you , not the car ! "